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Post by sandy on Jun 11, 2008 21:54:06 GMT -5
Why is it that when a man wants to get in close and personal he wants to give you a back rub? Is it really the turn on men think? I was chatting on line with a gent and he kept saying. "I bet you could use a back rub about now." I was thinking "What am I sounding that uptight?" Am I the exception to the rule?
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Post by Dabbit on Jun 13, 2008 8:15:49 GMT -5
Do you think he was suggesting something else through some sort of euphemism thingy? (rude thingy at that)
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Post by sandy on Jun 24, 2008 16:59:12 GMT -5
Not sure what he was suggesting but I sure didn't take him up on it!
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Post by Mark on Jun 24, 2008 17:18:50 GMT -5
I think you've met some rude men, Sandy. Don't judge all men by those. I've never offered 'backrubs'. Actually, I have been offered backrubs by women, so I guess I could make a similar 'complaint', but I won't question their underlying motives.
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Post by Dabbit on Jun 28, 2008 11:09:20 GMT -5
I agree Mark, not all men are rude and after one thing, like races creeds and colours there are good and bad in all
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Post by Mark on Jun 29, 2008 10:50:45 GMT -5
Right, there's good and bad in any group however designated or comprised. Also, some people come across as rude, in our opinion, when perhaps they are reflecting their rearing and/or culture. Doesn't excuse bad manners though - I just avoid that type.
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Post by Dabbit on Jul 1, 2008 1:06:18 GMT -5
There is one woman in our town who is crippled with arthritus and constantly in an electric wheelchair. She used to go in my wives shop until she was banned...But she tends to swear and is quite short tempered because of the pain she is in.
I think she is lonely to be honest as well because when I chat to her I have a laugh with her and she actually laughs with me. However, if I were to take her upon first impressions I would avoid her
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Post by Mark on Jul 1, 2008 8:46:40 GMT -5
Sometimes that's all it takes, Dabbit, a few kind words and a smile can do a lot to melt the ice - complaints sometimes being an actual plea for attention. Loneliness can do that as well as feelings of low self-esteem and so forth. A stranger is someone you haven't yet befriended.
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Post by Dabbit on Jul 3, 2008 2:18:17 GMT -5
Exactly not everyone is overly confident. People who are overly confident and loud and people with ideads of grandeur both get on my wick
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Post by Mark on Jul 6, 2008 10:44:08 GMT -5
I do know what you mean. Very obnoxious lot, aren't they?
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